Swinging is all about enjoying sex with other people while not endangering existing relationships. It's about enjoying sexually liberated fun no matter whether you're a single person a married couple or just good friends!

When placing an ad
think about the kind of ad you would reply to. Include as much detail as you can. Your age, body type, your sexuality, likes and your limits, your area, and if possible your photo. When you receive a reply always answer, if only to say 'no thanks'. Be honest in your description and what you want. There is nothing to gain by being dishonest.

When replying to ads
most people want to know the details listed above, beware of picture collectors. Genuine swingers are not interested in genital shots, a full-length picture showing your face should satisfy most. The only time genital or breast shots should be required is to prove endowment to advertisers seeking particular attributes. DO NOT disclose your phone number until you is satisfied that you would like to meet the advertisers.

First meeting
Unless you are seeking a one night stand you should make sure the people you are meeting know that there are NO GUARANTEES, and that sexual contact will only happen if you are happy with the situation. Sometimes it is best to meet for drinks only the first time, and then arrange another date if all agree - after all, how many of you get a shag on the first date when you meet someone in a normal relationship?!. Always meet where there are other people, but for discretion purposes do not meet too near your own or your new friend's home (the last thing you want is to explain to the neighbour why you were sitting on that man's knee!